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"Planning for a wedding can be an overwhelming experience. We are here to help you plan your day's entertainment to guarantee a 100% success and a great time for all."

 

 

 

This page was created by Dan McCarthy for the benefit of couples who are in the process of planning the music for their reception. It should both educate and enlighten you as you read about the many options available to you as you put together a game plan for your most important day. It is my intention to give you my honest opinion on what works and what doesn't work and how to avoid musical mistakes that are often made by couples who simply make shall we say "less than perfect" choices at critical times when it comes to music.


It is a DM Productions policy that the final decisions on all music rests with the Bride and Groom. In addition when a couple shows up to their final meeting with their song decisions made, we very rarely attempt to talk them out of any ideas they may have. So the purpose of this page is to prepare you for that final meeting so that the music you choose will accomplish the best result.

Let's get started...

 

Cocktail Hour

This is normally a time when you can play music that is "snappy". By that we mean music that has a bit of a beat to it. There are many different approaches you can take for your cocktail hour.

Here are a few selections that you can choose from:

STRAIGHT JAZZ: This is a great idea when having your wedding in a very elegant setting. This theme would be mostly instrumental for the first 20 minutes and then we would mix in some vocal hits for the remainder of the hour.

RAT PACK THEME: Who better than Frank Sinatra and Dean Martin to welcome your guests as the arrive at the function facility. Michael Buble`adds the modern flair to this theme.


OLDIES THEME: At a recent wedding, a couple told us that they didn't want a whole lot of oldies during the course of their reception, but could we play nothing but oldies for the cocktail hour. Well that resulted in one of the best cocktail hours we have done in years. Fun, toe-tapping oldies but goodies had people singing their way to their seats.

LIGHT ALTERNATIVE MUSIC: A good mix of artists such as John Mayer, Jack Johnson and Dave Matthews.

SUMMERTIME OR TROPICAL THEME: Perfect for the outdoor cocktail hour. A splash of Reggae and Jimmy Buffet as well as popular summertime tunes.

EASY R&B: A great hour of R&B Artists like Al Green, Marvin Gaye, Luther Vandross and Stevie Wonder just to name a few.

PLAY OUR CD: Fairly new in concept but so easy to do. The Bride and Groom burn a CD from their own Itunes Library and has us play it. We laugh when people wonder if we mind. Of course not, it reflects the personality of the couple.

LEAVE IT UP TO YOUR DJ: We always receive many compliments on our selection of cocktail music.

 

Bridal Party Introductions

Theory: If you have chosen to have your Bridal Party introduced to your guests, then keep in mind that this process can set the tone for the entire reception. Choose music that is upbeat and fun and not only will your Bridal Party walk in the room with a bounce in their step, but your audience should respond with an applause that is equal to the task. Here are the most popular methods:

1. Select one song for the Bridal Party and a separate song for the Bride and Groom.
Music is faded after Maid of Honor and Best Man enter. Guests are asked to stand.

2. Select one song for the Parents intros, a second song for the Bridal Party and a third song for the Bride and Groom.
This is a nice touch when the Bridal Party intro music is not really appropriate for the Parents.

3. Choose a separate song for each couple.
This can be a lot of work, but the results are very rewarding. If you have any "characters" in your Bridal Party, think of a song that might be their intro. If you laugh just thinking about it, this may be the way to go. Your DJ can fill in the blanks with some great suggestions.

Some popular song choices (just a few examples).

Parents: Sing, Sing, Sing; Jump With My Baby; C'est La Vie; This Will Be; Ain't No Mountain High Enough

Bridal Party: Are You Really Gonna Be My Girl; Walking On Sunshine; September; Shake A Tailfeather; Pump It (BEP); Monday Night Football Theme; Shipping Up To Boston; Rock & Roll Pt 2.

Bride & Groom: Beautiful Day; Welcome To The Jungle; Elevation; Start The Commotion

 

Parents Dances

Here are some popular songs we recommend for dances with parents and loved ones.

FOR THE BRIDE AND HER FATHER

I Loved Her First        Heartland
My Little Girl   Tim McGraw
My Little Girl Steve Kerwain
Daughter of Mine John McDermott
Daddy’s Little Girl  Al Martino
Butterfly Kisses Bob Carlisle
The Way You Look Tonight Frank Sinatra
There You’ll Be Faith Hill
Wind Beneath My Wings Bette Midler
Because You Loved Me Celine Dion
My Girl The Temptations
Father & Daughter Paul Simon

FOR THE GROOM AND HIS MOTHER

A Song For My Son Mikki Verrick
My Son Tony Kenny
You Raise Me Up Josh Groban
If There Hadn’t Been You Billy Dean
The Wonder of You Elvis Presley
Child of Mine Carole King
Mama BJ Thomas
The Man That You’ve Become Molly Pasutti
My Boy    TJ Loughran

FOR EITHER COUPLE OR WHEN DANCING WITH LOVED ONES

In My Life The Beatles
In My Life Bette Midler
What A Wonderful World  Louis Armstrong
Young at Heart Tony Bennett
Memories   Elvis Presley
The Rainbow Connection Sara McLaughlin
Unforgettable Nat & Natalie Cole
Over The Rainbow Katharine McPhee
My Wish Rascal Flatts
The Times of Your Life Paul Anka

 

Dance Music

While cocktail music can be fun and dinner music enjoyable, it is the dance music at a wedding that contributes the most to it’s overall success. At DM Productions, we have always used the dance floor as a type of “barometer” to judge how we are doing. Our goal has always been to have the dance floor be full from the time the dinner ends until the end of the reception. The difference between having a good dance floor and a great dance floor boils down to song selection, the timing of those songs , and the mood of the audience.

So...now you want to know how you can achieve a “GREAT” dance floor ?

Here’s a few simple tips:

1. Prepare a list of songs that you truly believe a good amount of your guests will enjoy dancing to. Very often, couples place requests on their list that are not considered strong dance songs. Remember that songs that are played on the radio are played with no regard for holding a dance floor. Ask your friends about a song you’re not sure of. Would you dance to it ?

2. Limit the number of dance requests. Keep in mind that for a 5 hour wedding reception, the most dance time you will have is 2 ½ to 3 hours. That’s about 45-50 songs. We recommend your list not exceed 30-35. This will allow your DJ 15-20 songs that he knows works to “glue” your requests together. Some of the best weddings we have done were for couples that gave us a short list and said “Do what you do best”.

4. Ask your DJ to critique your list. By getting an honest assessment of your request list, your DJ could point out any songs on your dance list that could potentially “bomb”. If you want a packed dance floor like we do, it’s important to recognize any potential songs that may clear the dance floor. The only time that normally ever happens to us is when we are playing something off a couple’s list that we wouldn’t ordinarily play.

 

 

 

 

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